Missed**

In The Case Thereof, You Can Miss What You Never Had; and That's The Opportunity!

There’s no worst enemy, then the enemy armed with the knowledge of the lack of another and with that knowledge, take advantage of…

If you will, go with me – picture, a pair of longtime friends – an issue witnessed and conveyed one to the other regarding the experience of lack. With that knowledge one takes advantage of the other.

The "lacking friend" known as loyal and considerate – she and the friend make plans to go to a party. Waiting curbside, when the friend pulled up, to her surprise a tall, beautiful man (like those in a freaking GQ magazine) stepped out and offered her the front seat- she refuses; he insisted.  Introduced by the friend, only stating his first name. They arrive at the party – he's somewhat attentive to her, offering to buy a cocktail, attempting small talk; even asked to dance once or twice; Confused by who is he to her friend; she refused his gestures –eventually, his efforts stopped.

The man is never discussed between the friends – maybe, a year later, walking down a busy street she bumps into the GQ man.

Him: “You are hard to get to know”

Her: What do you mean?

Him: The night I was with_____ I was there for you.

Her: Me?

Him: Yeah, didn’t she tell you, I had asked her to hook me up.

When she asked the friend----------------the friend's response, “I told you he was interested.”

Women who enjoy the God-giving attentions of men, appreciate their honest attempts to know them; and yet, many of them have been the victim of blocked opportunities...

Luke 6:31 "As you wish that others would do to you, do so to them."